Tag: relationship money stress
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Frustration Over Shared Finances in a Marriage: Turning Tension into Teamwork

Feeling shut out or unheard about “our money”? Use the 5-step LOWER method to lower tension and build trust with money dates, clear roles, and small next steps that turn conflict into teamwork. Read more
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When You and Your Partner Have Different Money Goals

When your money goals pull in opposite directions, use the LOWER method—Label, Own, Wait, Explore, Resolve—to lower the tension and build a plan that funds both security and fun. Try micro-agreements and a monthly money date so you both feel heard, hopeful, and on the same team. Read more
