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  • How to Be Kind When You’re Upset with Your Partner: A LOWER Method Guide

    How to Be Kind When You’re Upset with Your Partner: A LOWER Method Guide

    Feeling upset with your partner is normal—what you do next matters. With the lower method (Label, Own, Wait, Explore, Resolve), you can turn knee-jerk reactions into kind, clear conversations that protect your bond and actually solve the problem. Read more

  • Can LOWER Help Me Be More Patient With My Kids?

    Can LOWER Help Me Be More Patient With My Kids?

    When the morning scramble or homework battles push your buttons, LOWER helps you lower the heat—Label, Own, Wait, Explore, Resolve—so you respond with calm instead of regret. Practice it for a week and watch patience grow while your kids learn emotional skills by your example. Read more

  • The LOWER Method: 5 Steps to Diffuse Anger at Home

    The LOWER Method: 5 Steps to Diffuse Anger at Home

    Turn flare-ups into calm, constructive moments at home with the LOWER method—Label, Own, Wait, Explore, Resolve—complete with simple scripts, quick breathing resets, and easy fixes your whole family can use. Learn how to catch anger early, protect your relationships, and make your home feel like a true refuge again. Read more